I think that when I am being completely honest it might not give the best results, but at least I feel better. I say everything I need to say and this makes me somewhat stronger. Right now there is something that I want to say, or rather ask for, but I am too slow and too stupid to do it. Maybe it’s because I already have, but the person hasn’t acted on it much. I know he is thinking about it too, but why aren’t we communicating. It’s so weird how two people can talk about anything and anyone and in any form, but when it comes to discussing THEM it gets so much harder. I don’t know whether most couples are like that, but talking has different forms. I don’t mind talking about me, about my day, discussing how I felt in a certain situation and vice versa, but when I need to say how I feel about us and what bothers me, I just can’t. I am too afraid that it might sound too blunt and too weird. And I am also afraid that he might think I am being pushy, or God forbid, desperate. This is my ultimate fear. But then how do I ask for what I want, how do I say it out loud and demand attention and some action?
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